Dear Lara? Can I Tell Him To Move Out, My Boyfriend And His Ex-girlfriend Are Flatmates.

Question: My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with his girlfriend of 2years to be with me. Both before and during his relationship with her, they (my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend) as well as one othe...

Dear Lara? What Is The Difference Between Champagne And Other Types Of Wine?

Question: I am an aspiring wine connoisseur and I would like a guide on the different types of wine, in particular, what is the difference between Champagne and other types of wine. – Champagne or not...

Dear Lara, My Wife’s Gynaecologist Is Way Too Handsome

Question: My company provides excellent free health care benefits to it’s staff and family, and my newly pregnant wife has been seeing the gynaecologist at the company approved hospital for about two ...

Dear Lara, Should I Tell My Friend I Caught His Fiancee Cheating?

Question: I recently found out my friend’s fiancee is cheating on him. Do I tell him? If I don’t and he finds out I knew, wouldn’t he see this as a betrayal of our friendship? At the same time, I woul...

Dear Lara, I Found Out That My Wife Of 9 Years Was My Landlord

Question: I am a middle-aged man of average means. About 5 years ago, my wife kept urging us to move out of our flat to a different area due to flooding in our area. After looking around together with...

Dear Lara, There Is A Thief In My Office

Question: I work in a small friendly open plan office somewhere in Victoria Island, Lagos, comprising 6 co-workers, our boss, and myself. I usually bring along a can of Coke as part of my lunch, and p...

Dear Lara, I Visited Home And Witnessed Something I Shouldn't Have

Question: During a quick visit home from my nearby university in Lagos, Nigeria, I walked in on my parents in the kitchen, in what I would call, a very embarrassing position, involving, some ice cream...

Dear Lara, I Met This Lady, But Like Her Friend More

Question: I recently met a nice lady, Lily, and she subsequently brought her friend, Rose, along when we hungout. During the course of the day and subsequent interactions with them however, I realized...